what should I be?

I like to learn and I like to offer my helping hands.

But everythime when I do so, people tend to let go their responsibility and in the end it become my responsibility.

How can this ever happened?

Not that I am an irresponsible person. Not that I don't like taking up responsiblities.

It is just so much unacceptable for a person to be irresponsible just because they had a helping hand.

Should I be an ignorant person?

Should I be a selfish person?

Should I be torns among the roses?

..... should I be ..... should I be ..... should I be .....

People are so meant or is it myself being naive?